True Nature

     As I was in Salt Lake this week I had many thoughts and impressions as I thought of Ethne’s passing.

I have wondered what Ethne is doing now.  There is no doubt and that she is bringing comfort to her family and providing sweet moments of peace to those who so tenderly miss her.  Yet, I also sense that she is being of great service to more than just those she knew here on Earth.   

     As I pondered these thoughts I suddenly gained a deeper understanding and appreciation for the invitation our Savior has given us to “Feed my sheep” (John 21: 16-17) and the commandment to “love thy neighbour as thyself” (Matthew 19:19).  I was overwhelmed with the knowledge that fulfilling these commandments not only brings us eternal life, but they offer us the ability to feel our Savior and Father in Heaven’s spirit as we fulfill them.  I also recognized that as we go about serving, just like Ethne is doing, we will feel of her spirit. 

       During Ethne’s life she did not just sprinkle sunshine, she smeared it wherever she was.  I felt it each and every time she was in the room.  Her actions may have seemed typical of a little girl, yet in each hug, smile, kiss, song, skip, and twirl she buoyed up and cheered up anyone around her.  Each act was an act of service with a special Ethne touch.  I truly felt the Savior’s love through Ethne’s service and touch.

     After spending some time with Melissa, Lawrence, and Edward this week I know where Ethne learned to serve.  I, and countless others, have been buoyed and comforted through Lawrence and Melissa’s  strength, testimonies, and sacrifice.  I was humbled each time I was with Melissa. 

     Being on the receiving end of service is hard.  It is not easy to accept our limitations and allow others to do what we cannot do for ourselves.  It is humbling, yet sometimes it is necessary.  This is one of those times.  However, Melissa has not just been the recipient of service, she continues to be the giver of it as well, in any way she can. 

     During our conversations she would always ask about one of our kids.  She wanted to know what they were doing, what plans lie ahead for them, etc…  I recognize that this is Melissa’s true nature, one of service that she may not recognize as that, yet for me it was humbling that amidst the trials she is facing she continues to give of herself to others.  

~Aunt Becky